I just feel like I need to wordvomit this out (because that’s what it feels like when these moods come on me, it feels like I need to get it out of me, like keeping it in is impossible), as I open up drafts in my emails to write audition/consideration requests I probably will just close and forget about.
Things I did these past couple weeks:
- Submitted for a bunch of stuff I am sure I won’t get
- Including a recorded video of me singing
- Had a minor (?) meltdown about what I look like (again)
- Realized that’s probably why I haven’t recorded any more vlogs
- Realized you all probably don’t want to hear about my body image issues for the umpteenth time
- Refrained from posting about that
- Thought about it again
- Decided I really should make a post about it for real at some point as it does inform a lot of what I write about here (and also my various dysfunctions when it comes to acting/etc)
- Got halfway through writing this (bullet point list) post and gave up
- Had another audition
I’m kind of at a loss about this and don’t feel super-equipped to talk about it at the moment. But here I am posting about it anyway because it’s been so long since my last post!
On the other hand, I was informed that I got the part that I auditioned for a couple weeks ago! The character is described as something like “a girl next door, or a femme fatale. You know, depending.” (Which I love, obviously!) The nature of the project means that I might actually get to share that with you – stay tuned to hear more about that!
No news is not good news, y’all.
No news is just no news.
I’ve actually really enjoyed auditioning for the last handful of things I’ve auditioned for (redundancy, thy name is the Acting Ingenue). The people I’ve auditioned for have been helpful and kind and upbeat and informative, and the auditions themselves have been relatively quick and painless. (With the exception for the one where I waited 3+ hours because it was a call for both Equity and non-Equity. They were still very kind! And the audition itself was very quick! I just have my doubts as to whether or not they even heard me at all after that amount of time listening to people sing. I know by then I was just hungry and tired, not even really nervous anymore, I can’t imagine how they felt.) I’ve felt positive about every one of them, and had my positive feelings reinforced by the feedback I received.
But it still stings when you don’t hear back. There’s at least two of them that I was told I’ll hear back either way – if I got it or if I didn’t – but I’ve heard nothing so far and that’s still disheartening.
Dear casting directors of the world: even a form letter, I swear, would go a long way.
In any case, because I booked myself so busy for the past couple of weeks I don’t have a ton coming up this week or next (since I didn’t put as much time or effort in to looking for new things), though I do have a couple of things coming up.
Things I would like to keep in mind going forward:
- don’t lose momentum!
- I need to audition for more musicals!
- and maybe choirs or choruses or something?
- HEADSHOTS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, I NEED REAL HEADSHOTS.
- (which means I need to decide on what to do with my hair)
- practice practice practice practice practice!
- if it’s important enough you’ll find a way to keep moving forward.
And with that, the Acting Ingenue, signing off!!
So you know, other than the fact that I’m a ridiculous and sometimes embarrassing human being, that audition went well.
I have a feeling I won’t know how that went unless I get it, which is fine! I think it went okay – the character had changed since I last auditioned, I got to find out what the actual project is, etc etc.
I got through my recorded audition and my Skype audition as well (my laptop does not have a webcam, but I do apparently have a Skype account if you were wondering!). It was my first Skype audition and only my second recorded audition, which – blehhhh, I really hate recorded auditions but that could be because
- I hate watching my face
- I hate monologues/not having anyone to read off of
- I really don’t think I come across well on camera facewise (I FEEL LIKE THIS MAY BE A PROBLEM?)
- Since I can watch it back over I start analyzing and overanalyzing and wondering “well wait a minute maybe I can’t actually act at all?”
- related to that, if I’m not pleased with a recording I do it over and over until maybe it actually IS terrible but I can’t actually tell anymore?
- also, my face.
Anyway. (It’s amazing how quickly I can go from “wow look at me go! I’m doing things I’m afraid of even though I’m afraid!” to “wow I am a troll, why does anyone let me out of the house?”)
So this week, I have a singing lesson today and then an audition on Thursday. It’ll be my first audition with any kind of singing in…quite some time, actually, so Maestro has been kind enough to help me run my two cuts of sixteen bars into the ground. (The neighbors are confused, I’m sure.) Someday soon I should make a post (or gasp! a video!) about my new singing teacher and how much I am learning in and enjoying lessons nowadays!
Life’s pretty good here at Chez Acting Ingenue (well, Chez Muse and Maestro, unless this blog is my house?) and I can’t really ask for anything more.
Sending out love and encouragement and happiness to you all, since I seem to have an excess of it at the moment! ^^;;;
I’m going to confess, I took most of yesterday off from audition prepping. I know what you’re thinking: SLACKER! And you’re right. I spent most of yesterday cozied up watching The X-Files with Maestro. Which was lovely, but doesn’t really help with preparing for auditions other than studying what Gillian Anderson can do with her face.
So today I thought to remedy that! I’m sure I’ve mentioned here that I have singing anxiety (no, really?) and I feel as though I get most of my practicing done in the car where no-one can hear me. I’ve actually made a bit of progress in that regard – I can practice at home as long as there’s no one else in the house! Err, that might not sound like progress, but what if the neighbors hear me??
Today, not only did I practice while there were people in the house – I also recorded my practice! I deleted it immediately after, but it was huge for me. For one thing, it’s hard to hear how you actually sound when you’re inside your head, so that was helpful. But also, I’ve been toying with the idea of doing some kind of vlog, and I thought getting used to the idea of being recorded while I sing (or whatever) would be a good idea.
Unfortunately, I made the mistake of video-recording it, which is why I ended up deleting it immediately afterwards, and now I’m angsting about my appearance. Perhaaaaps I ought to have forgone that until after my audition on Monday, because now I’m all too aware of how I look while I sing and what I look like on camera (aka what I look like to other people) and I’m…not happy about it, to say the least. :\
I’ve been trying to be better about not indulging my insecurities lately – I’ve wondered if part of the reason I’ve become so insecure is because I’ve been indulging it at every opportunity, voicing it and and not even really trying to fight against it. But today all I want to do is whine about how I’m not at all pretty from most angles and I have a terrible nose and no jawline and why am I even bothering I’m nowhere near pretty or thin enough to make it in any capacity wah wah wah wah WAHHH.
So even though I just indulged my insecurities, to try and counteract that, I’m going to also mention that I sounded pretty great singing “In My Own Little Corner.” I feel as though I’m getting a ton more control over my voice. It used to be that I would sound exactly how I wished sometimes and then other times I would sound like a rusty hinge and I wouldn’t even know why – I had no real technique or control over my voice. Nowadays, I feel as though I’m getting a lot more, my vibrato isn’t as wide, and in general my musicality has gotten better.
So there’s the silver lining! Maybe if I get over myself I’ll actually post some kind of audio or video later. Maybe.
So, here’s the deal, internet.
You may have noticed that I haven’t been around much in the last few months. Basically, since finishing up the Christmas show I did last December and then the Big Audition I had at the beginning of April, there just hasn’t been much to write about.
809334th verse, same as the first.
I probably don’t need to regale you all yet again with the tales of my low self-esteem and various Issues with my singing voice, but I’m going to force myself to do it anyway because maybe addressing some of these issues will help me sort them out.
…aaaand of course after I write that I immediately distract myself with something else. Good job there.
I feel that the title of this post is pretty self-explanatory (though it is also a song lyric).
Sunday night – and it was night, my maestro is quite nocturnal – PC and I began our Secret Government Eggo Project. I, of course, began with a sense of trepidaton bordering on full-blown panic. With my heart in my throat, fingers vibrating with fear, I asked him “why? Why? Why is this so scary?” (Sometimes I repeat things three times for no reason.)
“I can’t answer that for you,” he said, and took my hand. I clutched at him and he squeezed my hand just hard enough to hurt. And away we went.
(I didn’t hold his hand the entire time, though, he did have to conduct me. Which, strangely, helps.)
In any case, I didn’t wheedle my way out of it completely (I can be very convincing when I am afraid of doing something!) and we got a lot of good material despite it being past midnight when we finished. All in all, it was more exhausting than the four-hour shift I had at my show the night previous.
If I keep doing this, maybe it will be like driving – I start off petrified and panicky, but eventually it won’t be that big of a deal to me. Like driving, I’ll still be constantly vigilant (because if you do driving wrong you can, you know, die), but I will be more comfortable and less inclined to panicked crying. One can only hope.
He really is very patient with me, he’s somehow struck the balance between not letting me get away with anything and not wounding my delicate flower feelings. (Delicate floral feelings?) I’m enjoying it, so far – the work that he’s done is beautiful, as usual, and I enjoy working with him. I just hope I’m not ruining it completely with my voice. D:
So, four days before a wedding that I am in and about a week before opening night of a show I am really excited about is prrrrrrrrrrobably the worst time to get sick, right?
I have to blame this one on myself, though; between rehearsals, the Secret Government Eggo Project, the minimal help I’ve done with the wedding (sadface!), work and having a new relationship and not sleeping very much (or eating properly, for that matter), I’ve made myself ill. Burning the candle at both ends. I’ve been making up the sleep this week, though, and hopefully I can convince myself to eat something later today.
Note to self: DON’T DO THIS AGAIN.